Kevin Samuels and Domestic Discipline

I'm gonna start this post bluntly so that there is no mistaking where I am coming from. Kevin Samuels was a woman-hating piece of garbage. He is NOT an ally to the Domestic Discipline community, despite his openly supporting our lifestyle.

Let's look at the fruit of Mr Samuels, shall we? First off, he openly supported the idea of a man slapping a woman across the face. He often refers to a Sean Connery quote that advocates for the same, and taught it to his fans. There is no excuse, other than life or death self-defense, for a man to hit a woman. Spanking is different, because spanking corrects a woman's behavior on a private part of the body and on a part of the body that is not likely to have lasting damage. Spankin

g helps establish a man's authority over a woman without being degrading. Hitting a woman anywhere else except the butt is just not cool. But Mr. Samuels promoted this abuse several times.

Next, Kevin Samuels regularly referred to women as thots, hoes and 304's. He also consistently taught women that their value as human beings is directly tied to their body count. Rarely did I ever hear him say anything kind about women. In fact, he often said that a woman could be the kindest, sweetest most caring woman in the world, but that she still had low value if she happened to have slept with a lot of guys.

Numerous prominent figures within the Domestic Discipline community have held Samuel's teachings in high regard. What's even scarier is that Kevin Samuels DOES have a lot of good teachings. He does correctly teach the truth about female nature. And he does correctly teach that women need male leadership to thrive. But this is what makes his bad teachings even more dangerous. He mixes his good teachings in with his bad teachings, which creates a multi-ingriedient shit-stew of anti-woman nonsense. And too many people in the DD community are sitting at his table and eating his stew.

I understand the appeal of Kevin Samuels in the Domestic Discipline community. He was a major celebrity who openly promoted our lifestyle. I get it. So many of us want to be out to freely live our lifestyles. And an endorsement from a famous person would seem to help us to that end. But the thing about him is that he is also a verbal abuser. He truly looks down on women who don't fit his low-body count, “perfect girl” frame, and he freely admits to doing so.

It's well known that the Domestic Discipline community has a lot of female lurkers. Lurkers, for those who don't know, are people that regularly read Domestic Discipline posts and watch DD content, but do not comment or engage in any way. It is my belief that the majority of these lurker women are looking for a place to be loved, valued, appreciated and accepted. If they were looking to be used, judged and talked bad about for no good reason, they'd be at frat houses. If they wanna be looked down on for their body counts or whatever, they can easily find that attitude in the rest of the world. The Domestic Discipline community is supposed to be a place of refuge from that kind of shit. It is supposed to be a place where women are judged for….get this….. how they treat others. Wild concept, I know!

But if some of the prominent people in our community would get their heads out of their asses and start treating women like actual human beings instead of used cars, we'd have a lot more women in our community. And our community would be a much better place to hang out in.

50 Shades Of Grey was insanely popular for a good reason. It tapped into the female instinct and their internal need to be lead and sometimes disciplined. That movie could have been a great moment for the DD community, since it helped increase curiosity about our lifestyle. But when all these young women who saw the movie started checking out the blogs and posts in our community, they quickly saw that they would be judged, shunned and possibly abused by many within it. And they were right. Unfortunately, many of us have the same mentality as Kevin Samuels.

I don't claim Samuels as a part of the DD community. I don't reccomend his teachings. And I have no respect for anyone who calls themselves a member of our community that shares his mentality. He's trash.

To close, I will leave you with this. It's no secret that about half the Domestic Discipline community are committed Christians. Didn't Jesus teach you guys to welcome the stranger? Why would you actively shun the women who are the most judged by the rest of society? Why would you actively shun women who need love and acceptance the most? It makes no fucking sense. Have a good day.

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